Its a challenge

Oh man, this parenting thing is hard. How do you know that you make the right choices for your children??? I feel like being in a transracial adoptive home my choices for my children get scrutinized! I live my children with my whole heart and would do whatever is necessary to have them grow up to be healthy and happy adults! Would you make a hard choice for your child? If it was what your child needed, but it could cause life to be uncomfortable or cause you to lose people close to you would you chose it? I have been thrown into a situation that I am so lost in, but I at least know that now my motives are pure, I am throwing myself under the bus to allow my child to live happy.