Today is fathers day. THis is a day that brings up a lot of questions in my home primarily, who is my dad. To answer their question honestly would be too much, they have no father, no legal father, no known father. Just no father. I explained to them that yes, every human being has to have a male (father) and a female (mother) to exist, but that doesn't help that I have no answers for them. Should I say; "Well Butter bean, your first mother gave three names of potential fathers, but they all denied it", or "La La, your mom said she had no clue who your dad was, she was working then." or "Sweets, we have a couple of names, but none of them could be bothered to do paternity testing." Nope, so I said to them if you want a dad, then I will have to get married, and that would mean you all sharing me with someone else. Sweets said no thanks, La La said maybe later, and Butter bean had three names for me and told me to get him a daddy! LOL gotta love kids!
On another note, I want to take a minute to thank my father, he is one of the most accepting and loyal man I know. He didn't have to take my children as his grandchildren, but he did, they carry his last name and I hope will do it proud. He has always been there for me and my siblings and worries and loves all of us. He is truly a fantastic man.
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